You dirty dog you!

Did you really think I would be training my…. 😂😂

Anyway! Now that you have fallen for my shameless clickbait and are here, let’s talk about people pleasing and your ass best keep reading! 

For ALL of my life, I have naturally been this very sweet, demure and very mindful good girl. You remember those girls growing up right? The ones that never put out, loved Jesus and never got in trouble?? That was me – on steroids!!! That demeanor often coincided with  judgmental and people pleasing behavior.  I had big people pleaser energy! Major!! I know a lot of you can relate. You’re either that person or know that person. 

Cue the violins and let me bore you for a bit. Over the years, all that left me with was a trail of users and trifling MFs. People really will take a mile if you give an inch and I hate that about the nature of mankind. I’ve seen it in this industry all too often and I despise it. What about being kind makes people automatically think you’re weak and turns on their villain mode? Shit’s weird. 

So why is this titled Asshole Training? (From here on out I will say butthole because I’m a lady!) 😂 

Being in this industry has greatly helped with my ability to set boundaries while staying true to my natural pleasant spirit. I never want to lose that. I’ve gone through a lot but thankfully that’s remained in tact. I went through a phase where I despised being kind because I didn’t know how to use it as a strength. I also confused niceness for kindness which the two are completely different. I rather hear nails on a chalkboard than be told I’m nice. 🤢 

So here I am. A reformed people pleaser that relapses from time to time. Every so often, I snap myself out of a relapse by telling myself “girl stop being a whack ass ho and tell them no.” Let me go ahead and pop my collar because that’s a big deal! It’s the awareness for me!!

Here’s the thing though. Nothing I’ve described is truly butthole energy. I just refer to boundary setting as that because it’s provocative and it gets the people going. Buttholes are absolute jerks and sucky people that are horrible for sport. I’m not that.  

So what was the purpose of this other than to trick you into reading? I’m not so sure. I’ve just felt my boundaries being pushed lately and needed to ramble and vent some. 

Here’s a dimly lit video as a consolation for your boredom.

-K💕 

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