I’ve been questioned about communicating after the date and I want to clear up a few things. You typically will not hear from me after our date. The only times I will say something is when I’ve been tipped and I didn’t notice until you left and I wanted to thank you or if you wanted me to let you know I made it home safely. Otherwise, I don’t say anything. It’s absolutely nothing personal and I do this with everyone.

I don’t initiate contact afterwards out of respect for your life and privacy. I don’t know your situation at home. I don’t know if you have someone checking your phone or if you leave your phone laying around where others can glance at it. I’m all about being discreet and keeping things drama free as possible.

If you would like for me to check in and say hi or wish you a happy birthday or a happy holiday, just tell me that it’s okay for me to reach out from time to time. I don’t mind and I would love to keep in touch. Nothing long and drawn out but just a quick check-in is no problem for me. I won’t do a lengthy back and forth.

I will not initiate a date though. It’s kind of awkward for me to ask to see you again. I guess I am kind of old fashioned when it comes to that. Can you believe that I would have the audacity to be old fashioned! lol. If you want to see me again, just ask.